Yesterday was Ben’s birthday. I can’t believe we didn’t do anything super fun or even go out for dinner. We have a long history of celebrating his birthday together. The first year of college right after we met… before we even started dating… back when we were just friends… I organized a birthday dinner for him when I found out he didn’t have plans. How could you not have plans on your birthday? I had to do something about it
We don’t always do something fun and exciting but we always do SOMETHING to celebrate.
Having two babies makes life pretty complicating. It is worth it a million times over but it is very very complicating. Yesterday we ended up substituting fun birthday celebration for carting Paul around to three different doctors’ appointments. And then he didn’t sleep well because he was sick. I feel bad for Ben AND for Paul. Not a great way to spend your birthday for sure. But that’s how great of a dad Ben is. He never once complained.
He is my husband, best friend, babies’ daddy, and number one fan all rolled into one. I love you so much Ben. Sorry your birthday was no fun.
And just because I wanted to have a picture in the post… here is one of my absolute favorites of all time.



























